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Wednesday, May 4, 2022

Make It Stop

A more correct post title would have been Make Them Stop

This refers to the many annoyances we get on our phones and in the postal mail—by names such as spam, scam and junk mail and this post doesn't even include email spam.

Many people, including other bloggers, have commented that they receive way too many catalogs, phone calls or other unwanted and unsolicited mailings. In a recent post on her Accidentally Aging blog, Latane, showed an extreme example of a catalog mailing received recently and asked if anything similar had happened to anyone else.

Assorted catalogs (Internet source)
Several bloggers responded in their comments about receiving too many catalogs and other solicitations.

Make It Stop has become a common thread plea.

In response to Latane's post, my comment was that (fingers crossed) we hardly get any catalogs
delivered. In fact, I can't recall the last time one was in our mailbox, even at holiday time.

That could be since we don't order through any. It may sound hard impossible to believe, but it's true. We either buy directly in stores and, now, online (a lot). In the past, we've received catalogs from places we shopped at and from places we've never shopped. As recent as last year, we were getting catalogs addressed to the former tenant who hasn't lived here in 7 years and apparently did a lot of catalog shopping.

We don't get catalogs as I Make It Stop; Grenville would just recycle them. That doesn't work for me. It's extra effort to go to recycling on another floor, but more so, a big waste of paper.

Here's what works for me, calling customer service (CS) listed in the catalog and explaining (politely, of course) that we do not want the catalog, asking that our name and address not be provided to other companies (many times that's what happens). The usual response is to that catalogs are preprinted, so a few more may come. My always polite response is these will be recycled until they stop. (I've heard/read about how some yell/scream at CS reps. There really is no need. After all, it's a job and sometimes not a pleasant one.) 

Of course, this can be time-consuming, if you get a lot of them. The alternative is to keep tossing them out. Many online sites give tips on how to stop junk mail, but I've never tried any of them.

Unlike now, there was a time when catalogs were not only welcomed, but looked forward to in the mailbox. It was how folks ordered everything for their home, for some including the home.

The two most popular catalog giants were Sears Roebuck & Company and Montgomery Ward. While Sears may have been the better-known catalog, but it was not the first.

1895 Montgomery Ward
In 1872,
 Aaron Montgomery Ward, a traveling dry goods salesman, started the first general purpose mail-order catalog company focused on rural customers in the Midwest. 

Ward had observed that rural customers wanted city goods. Their only access was through rural retailers with little competition and no guarantee of quality. Ward believed he could cut costs and make a wide variety of goods available to these customers, who could purchase goods by mail and pick them up at the closest train station.

Ward and two partners raised $1,600, and issued the first catalog in August 1872. The 8×12 in. single-sheet price list had 163 items for sale with order instructions. In 1883, the company's catalog was 240 pages and 10,000 items. The company faced mail order competition when Richard Sears introduced his first general catalog in 1893. 
Sample products in 1934 Montgomery Ward catalog (Internet sources)
By 1900, Montgomery Ward had total sales of $8.7 million vs. $10 million for Sears. By 1904, Montgomery Ward mailed 3 million catalogs, weighing 4 pounds each. In 1985, after 113 years, the company closed its catalog business.
1897 Sears Roebuck & Co.

Sears, Roebuck and Company made its name with hefty, jam-packed catalogs that advertised everything from underwear to house kits. Early Sears catalogs were labeled as the Cheapest Supply House on Earth or the Book of BargainsBy 1894, the catalog had 322 pages. 

The Sears catalogue contained more than 500 pages of merchandise by the late 1890s. Rural Americans could now purchase hundreds of different items like shoes, clothing, women's garments, wagons, fishing tackle, furniture, china, musical instruments, bicycles, firearms, groceries too — all by mail.

Through its catalog, Sears was able to reach out to the 70 percent of Americans who lived in the rural U.S. at the end of the nineteenth century. Many of whom were said to have thought that the Bible and the Sears catalog were the only books they read. In some cases, that might have been true.

At its peak, it offered over 100,000 items in 1,400 pages and weighed 4 pounds (like the MW one). In 1933, Sears created the annual Wish Book catalog, that youngsters drooled over at holiday time. That became its official name in 1968. Sears discontinued its general catalog in 1993.
Sample products in 1897 Sears, Roebuck & Company catalog (Internet sources)
People could buy a complete house from the Sears catalog. These house kits were popular and came with assembly instructions. Parts didn't come in the mail, but were delivered by railroad. Sears is estimated to have sold 70,000-75,000 home kits from 1908-1940. Kits came in 447 different designs, from the grand Magnolia ($5,140 to $5,972) to the more popular Winona ($744 to $1,998). Sears advertised the kits promising that We will furnish all the material to build this house design. Parts arrived precut, ready to assemble.
Sears Catalog Home Kits
If you want to learn more about Sears homes, a favorite podcast, 99% Invisible (Episode 323) featured The House That Came in the Mail. It's a fascinating listen which you can hear online by clicking the highlighted link or you can read it on the podcast website.

1963 J.C. Penney
Late to the catalog game was retailer J.C. Penney (after James Cash Penney) which issued its first catalog in 1963. It developed into a massive 1,000-page big book catalog before being discontinued in 2009. The company announced that the 
discontinuation was in keeping with its ongoing commitment to promote the sustainability of forests and other natural resources. 

Five years later in 2015, the company reversed position stating that research showed customers liked to browse a traditional print piece (or look book) at home before going into a store or ordering online. 

The catalog succumbed to the digital age, as did the company. It filed for bankruptcy protection in 2020 after 118 years in business as one of the premier shopping avenues for America's middle class.


Make it Stop — Junk Mail
Is your mailbox filled with junk mail  Numerous online sites advise how to stop junk mail, too many to list. Search online and you will find them. Whether or not they will help isn't guaranteed.
Pile of junk mail (Internet source)


I read a statistic that in the U.S. alone, we receive up to 90 billion pieces of advertising mail. It's not called junk from the postal system's view. The average household gets 40 pounds annually which accounts for about 60 percent of all mail Americans get. According to the USPS only half is read, some 4 million tons of paper are tossed out —a lot of waste every year.

Many of us have received $ requests from charitable, historical or other organizations. Once you donate to an organization, you get a thanks plus a request for another donation. It's happened to us as well, not so much anymore.

Here's why. For the past several years, we've contributed mostly to local organizations. letter is always sent with the donation stating that it be used for whatever purpose needed and that we do not want to receive an acknowledgment or further contact, and no request(s) for further donations during the year. We also ask that our information not be provided to others. 

There's also includes a condition that if these requests are not respected, a future donation would be reconsidered. Our home address is blocked out on the check (using a black marker). A friend told me this was OK, a check with our local bank confirmed that. This works for us as to date we haven't received another donation request from over 12 organizations, so we will contribute to all again this year. 

Make It Stop—Spam Calls
We've all had them, many are automated robocalls. You know the ones that usually come
around meal times. Did you know that spam calls fall into several main categories?
  • Telemarketers: someone is trying to sell something from a legally registered business. 
  • Legal robocalls: automated calls for notifications, services, or sometimes bills. Some can be from medical offices to confirm appointments or schools making announcements.
  • Illegal robocalls: prerecorded messages you didn’t sign up to receive and includes calls like an expiring auto-warranty or a student-loan.
  • Scam calls: when a person calls to defraud; includes car-warranty, kidnapping scams and fake IRS calls.
And, like for junk mail, many online articles advise how to stop or at least limit these calls. One popularly recommended step is to add your number(s) to the FTC’s National Do Not Call Registry, which could help reduce these calls. It won't stop every scammer or legitimate robocalls, but could provide some help. Many cell phone companies offer a free spam-blocking app as well. 

Cell phones also have call blocking apps available, some free; others at a cost. There's other ways without using an app. I don't know about Androids, but iPhone has a feature to Silence Unknown Callers. This avoids calls from people I don’t know by blocking phone numbers I've never been in contact with and who aren't in my contacts list. Silencing unknown callers could silence some that are important, but not in my contacts. If that's so, a voicemail can be left.

Unfortunately, the effort to Make It Stop unwanted calls and mail can be exhausting. However, if it means that we get fewer annoying calls and unwanted mail, I'll continue and possibly save some trees. And, the methods described in this post are my own. I do not use any online resources or apps. Others may have differing approaches. These work for us.

As noted by a fellow blogger, I didn't include spam emails and spam blog comments as that would have really made the post longer, perhaps in a future post.

Quickly on blog comment spam, I don't monitor comments, but review daily as often as possible. Obvious spam (or suspicious) comments are first marked as spam, then deleted. Maybe over the long term this has some effect as several annoying spammers have not been here in quite awhile. Other bloggers may know to whom I refer as many of us were slammed repeatedly.

22 comments:

David M. Gascoigne, said...

All of the junk mail, and advertising flyers are especially annoying to me. I never look at any of them. They go straight into the recycling bin, where many, if not most of them, will never find their way to a recycling facility anyway.

Barbara Rogers said...

Well documented account of various catalogs and callers...and you didn't comment about the spam commenters here in Blogland! I do switch to monitoring my incoming comments if spam shows up...and after a while can go back to immediate posting. The sources are noted as spam too...as well as being deleted. I hope somehow having that designation they won't be coming through again...though that may or may not happen! Thanks for this post!

MadSnapper said...

I got maybe 3 catalogs in the past year, those were at Christmas. 1 was local. my junk mail doesn't come in the house if i can tell what it is, like local ads that used to come in newspapers. the recycle bin is next to the mail box. the other things i have to open and then put in recycle. like politicians asking for money. I have never and will never given one penny to a politican. slice it open and dump ti.
it is the robo calls that make me crazy and there is now way to stop them on my android. my life from birth to 1989 was sears catalog. now its Amazon and walmart

Vee said...

Things like that get my name ripped off and tossed directly into the recycling bin. I worked a few years for LL Bean customer care. Usually people were very polite in their requests. Interesting history lesson.

Marcia said...

Most of our mail goes in to the recycle bin now. I once made the calls to catalog companies asking for removal. There was also a website called Catalog Choice where you could stop catalogs. Don't know if it still exists.

LL Cool Joe said...

In the UK we get hardly any junk post, but in the States all of our mail is junk! A guy comes to check on our house a couple of times a month and empties out the mail box. It's full, and maybe it contains one letter that we actually need. It's not really catalogues, it's more coupons and leaflets. What a waste of paper and costly printing!

Bijoux said...

I did not know you could black out your address and still have the check be viable for the charity. That's a good idea. We are constantly hounded by a certain university and a food bank after giving them donations. It's a shame that they waste so much of the donations on junk mail, but it must work or they wouldn't keep doing it.

John "By Stargoose And Hanglands" said...

I get an occasional bit of junk mail, but not enough to bother me. The telephone calls seem to have stopped too. Maybe Blogger has told them that I'm a robot!

Linda G. said...

We don’t receive much spam mail via the postal service. As you, we don’t order merchandise via catalogs. I DO receive too many spam emails. From time to time I mark those spam emails, as junk. I also receive spam messages (not Facebook messenger) but texts. I may discuss the spam with my mobile phone provider at some point. I find all spam mail annoying.

Bill said...

Very really do we get junk mail. As for the phone, if I don't recognize a number I don't answer it and whoever is calling doesn't leave a message.

gigi-hawaii said...

I sometimes get catalogs for cigars. We don't smoke. The previous owner must have ordered cigars, but he no longer lives here. I just dump the mailing.

Pamela M. Steiner said...

Very interesting article, and good thoughts about what to do about scammers and junk mail, etc. I use the block number feature on my cell phone frequently, but I find they just use another number to call us. It gets frustrating. I try not to even answer them, but when I do, I ask them to please remove my number from their list. I don't think they do, but at least I try. I loved getting the Sears, Penney's and Montgomery Ward catalogs. Especially Sears wishbooks at Christmas time. I did most of my Christmas shopping for our children from the catalog. They would go through and mark what toys or things they were interested in and then we would see if Santa Claus could afford any of them...nowadays I do a good bit of online shopping, but not entirely. However, I don't enjoy shopping at all either way, so I avoid it until the last minute most of the time and then it's even worse. Oh well, such is life. If I could just figure out a way to give gifts w/o having to shop, I'd be a happy person. LOL. Hope you enjoy the rest of your week. I hope it is getting warmer by now!!

Latane Barton said...

Oh, one of my pet peeves as you know. I tried calling the companies and asked to be taken off the mailing list and that worked fairly well. I never thought to tell them to not sell my address so naturally I would then get catalogs from new companies. thanks for the tip. I definately will try that.

My name is Erika. said...

It is fun when you can look at those old catalogs. Just seeing the styles of items, the appliances and the prices is fun. I know someone who has a Sears kit house. They use it as a camp as it is not insulted, but it really interesting to see the other plans you shared in this post. Retail has certainly changed, hasn't it? Hope you have a great rest of the week. hugs-Erika

Jeanie said...

I love getting the catalogues and don't get many except from people I buy from so I can work with that. But the phone calls -- I block numbers all the time but since so many are random robos, I don't think that's all that effective!

Rob K said...

I love all the background and history you provide in all of your posts. I learned so much about the old Sears and Montgomery Ward catalogs.

Meanwhile, I keep getting People magazine each week even though I have no memory of subscribing to it.

William Kendall said...

I get maybe one or two flyers in the mail a week. That's it.

Veronica Lee said...

We rarely get junk mail via the postal service these days but I do get a lot of spam emails.

Fascinating post, Dorothy!

Happy Monday!

Sallie (FullTime-Life) said...

Lots of good information here Dorothy. We don't get junk snail mail any more because we have used a mail forwarding service for over 20 years since we sold our home and (at first) traveled extensively via RV. The first service we used had a box we could check to not forward catalogs (I think it's called second class mail, I'm not sure any more) and we did that. That also included all magazines which was fine as we had let all subscriptions lapse in anticipation of traveling. Magazines are notorious for selling their subscription lists and that is how junk mail often used to get them! .... I suspect now that doesn't happen very often any more, having been replaced by selling/stealing Internet addresses instead. But, as you say, that is another story!

DeniseinVA said...

Great advice here Dorothy and lots of interesting information. Thank you!

Haddock said...

I wonder if they think that people will fall (and respond) to these junk mails.

baili said...

dear Dorothy you have unique mind to select such issues and share with such astonishing details which i appreciate indeed ,i enjoyed learning how spam stuff is bothering people in your part of land particularly ,the amount of paper waste you mentioned was heart breaking and i must agree that less than half of it is read .
most interesting thing that i learnt buying house through mail :)
we don't receive such mail here ,only spam emails or comments yes .
thank you for adding much into my knowledge
hugs and blessings