Showing posts with label VA. Show all posts
Showing posts with label VA. Show all posts

Thursday, June 19, 2025

Looking Back & Ahead

It's been a pleasure over the years, 15+ to be exact, for Patrick (Grenville) and myself Dorothy (Beatrice) to have met many wonderful people through blogging. 

It's greatly enriched our lives to become blog friends with many here in the U.S., Canada and worldwide who have shared their lives, adventures, family and more. And, we've been fortunate to have met bloggers in person, not only on road trips, but on getaways abroad — all wonderful, exiciting and fun experiences. 

WAIT . . . this isn't a Farewell Post
Instead, it's a bit of nostalgia after time (too much) was spent time looking back at earlier posts this week and realizing this blog so long ago. And, I also, learned that text in colors, like yellow, do not work well, black always is best. Also, found out that, photos in many older posts no longer display or the alignment is off.

Yikes! Once we started blogging, we were quite active at it. In fact, there were some months when we posted more blogs than there were days in the month! The first 2 years we had over 400 posts for each year, more days than in the year. While we've become less prolific in terms of posts per month, posts have usually been longer. We're never at a loss of ideas it seems.

How did the blog name happen?
Penguin is misspelled as Penguinn with an extra "n" on purpose. Once upon a short-lived time we thought idea of starting a B&B at our VA home and giving it a unique name. We had a collection of frog and penguin stuffed toys, many were gifted to us (never share that you like something or your family and friends will add to your collection). The name The Frog and Penguinn was selected. However, the B&B plan never happened after a friend who ran one in NJ shared her experiences and later sold the business. The blog name stayed.

The first post in mid-January 2015 was written by written by Grenville T. Boyd; the next one was authored by Beatrice P. Boyd. 

What about those odd author names?
Blogging was new to us and rather than give our actual names, we used aliases that we modified a bit. The names Grenville and Beatrice were borrowed from Boyds Bears figurines we owned and we added the random middle initial for fun.
Our Boyds Bear Collection of Beatrice & Grenville still on our bookshelf
How did have so much to post about early on?
To start, especially for those who have not been reading the Frog & Penguinn blog from back then, here's why. We sold our home in our native NJ and relocated to a very small town, Onley, on the VA eastern shore (spelled differently, but pronounced as only). The VA house was our first one together after our later-in-life re-marriages and each having our own home/townhouse. We wanted an "ours" home even if we would have to do some home-work and we were not disappointed there..
The VA house at first sight and a For Sale by Owner sign
The house we bought (above) was an older 1913 Victorian-style former farmhouse and it definitely needed updating. After deciding where to relocate, we made a couple of house hunting trips to the Eastern Shore. We saw this on our last day there, then called the number, met the owner, made an offer and hand shook on the sale. Try doing something like that in today's housing market anywhere else.

When I said Onley, VA, was small, here's a comparison: In our Beachwood, NJ, town there were over 11,000 residents compared to Onley, VA, with just over 530. We now live in Nashua, NH, the second largest city in the state with over 91,000 residents.

What did we post about?
Once we were settled in, we decided to share our progress with anyone who would read about it. Everything  — not just the renovations, but the gardening for both vegetables and flowers and recipes (a lot) and meals on for how we used the veggies which was very large for only 2 people. One thing you quickly learn on the VA Eastern Shore in summer time is that a lot of your neighbors also grow veggies, no one needs giveaways. We bought a small freezer; I made many zucchini breads and zucchini-based meals.

Who commented?
It was a slow start and most posts received no comments or just a few, often from our friend and neighbor, Possum. We weren't deterred as we had a lot of projects going on with renovating the older Victorian home so there was never a lack of subject matter and if there weren't a lot of folks commenting, that didn't matter.

Also, we had internet service, but no TV connection as the local cable company was not especially reliable. Years back, streaming wasn't as popular as today. DVD movies rentals were our source of entertainment from our own collection or rented from the video store in town (remember those days?). Truthfully, after dinner and writing a blog post, it was bedtime for us.

Then it (finally) happened
After a few months, OK give or take 6 or more, we started getting comments from other bloggers. WOW! it was great to find out that folks were reading our posts. Among the earliest to comment were John (AC or Anvilcloud), Lois who posted from a cruise ship on which her husband, Kjell, was an officer. There was also Doris in PA and Denise in VA (both of whom we’ve met several times), Kathleen (Eggs in My Pocket, TX), Elaine in Alaska (who we met when she and Marty visited NH), Grammie G in ME (who we also met), Ludwig in GA (another meet up when visiting my cousin).

By the end of that first year, along with some regulars, we were receiving comments from bloggers throughout the U.S. and beyond, including Mona (Montana), Steve (Iowa), Connie (Iowa), Elaine (Canada), Sandra (FL), Scott (Utah), Larry (Iowa), Valerie and John (England), Christer (Sweden). It was very exciting, that's the truth!

In the years since that first post, there's been many more comments from folks who comment now and then (or no longer comment) and from bloggers from years back who still read and comment and those we've met. You know who you are; we appreciate y'all. 

Bloggers are an online community of friends
And, we miss them when they're no longer here. Sometimes, a blogger has stopped blogging completely, maybe giving a reason, or not. Sadder yet, several bloggers have passed away: Mona (Wsprsweetly of Cottages), Lorraine (Mamas Mercantile) and most recently John (By Stargoose and Hanglands). We miss all of them.

In some cases, a family member kindly posted an update of a blogger's passing. But, when nothing has been posted, we wonder if anything had happened or did he/she just decide to call it quits, as some have done. Maybe the same has happened to some bloggers you've known as well ?

There's always a NJ connection
Former blogger Goldendaze-Ginnie (NC) was born in the same (and only) hospital in Plainfield, NJ, as myself and also had family living there. Another connection was that she grew up and attended college in New England, where we now live, later moving to NYC. Ginnie voluntarily stopped blogging in 2022 at age 89. If anyone has an update, please share.

In looking back over more than a decade of blogging, not only have fellow bloggers shared their lives and interests, but been there for many of ours, including:
  • Moving from our native NJ to VA
  • Renovating and gardening of our old home
  • Moving (again) from VA to a mill apt in NH
  • Births of grandchildren
  • Deaths of loved ones 
  • Celebrations of birthdays & holidays
  • Anniversary celebrations & special occasions
  • Day trip getaways & road trips in the U.S. and Canada
  • Travels abroad (more to come)
  • Humor (Friday Funnies posts)
  • Curiosity (What is This? posts)
As noted earlier, we don't blog as often as before, also while I do read your posts, I do not comment on each and I'm sure many also do the same here. We both have other commitments and interests, volunteering to ham radio and still enjoy road trips, near and in recent years even farther. 

We enjoy sharing our lives with all who read, regardless of any comment left. Today, Beatrice (Dorothy) is the primary blogger; Grenville (Patrick) is semi-retired from active posting, but reads and contributes (a lot). Jointly, we invite you to come along on our wanderings and anything else that interests us — and maybe you as well. 

Your Turn — Please feel share to share your blogging story, THANKS.

Friday, March 2, 2018

House-less (in a Good Way)

Yes, we finally are without a house to call our own because . . .
The Frog & PenguiNN, which was what we lovingly named our home on the VA Eastern Shore (that was neither an inn or a B&B) has a new owner as of this past week. We're happy and overjoyed to share the news with everyone! 

As regular readers of this blog know, selling the Frog & PenguINN has been a very long time coming, nearly 6 years. It was a wonderful home, circa 1902, that we updated and enjoyed for the 12 years that we lived there. And, it was located in a great neighborhood with lots of friendly neighbors.

But,when it comes to selling, it came down to that well-worn phrase: location, location, location (somehow it's always repeated 3 times, not sure why). As many times as we showed photos of our house to other, we would get the same question?  "Why hasn't it sold yet?" Then, we reminded them of its location. The small town of Onley, VA (pop. 500) was located near many amenities such as a YMCA, Walmart, and a recently opened brand hospital. But it was definitely not a bustling metropolis. The closest major cities, such as of Virginia Beach, VA or Salisbury, MD entailed a 90 minute drive, north or south.

We thoroughly enjoyed the slower, relaxed lifestyle for the dozen years we lived there. Our original plan after buying the house was to make it a permanent home and we spent the years renovating the house and yard. We also enjoyed sharing those experiences on this blog. We met nice folks, shared fun times, and made good friends who we will miss.


But, 2-1/2 years ago we decided we needed a change and new experiences. We relocated  to Nashua, NH, which was closer to family and grandchildren already living in New England. Not only did this include a 10-hour drive from VA, but an entirely new lifestyle. We went from home dwellers to apartment residents (even though we still owned a house).  Instead of a single-family residence, we live in a former textile mill (Nashua Manufacturing Company) which has 325 apartments with nearly 900 residents. That's nearly twice the number of people  than in the entire VA town we formerly lived in. 

Is it working out for us? 
In a single word, Yes. Sure there are many differences but also lots of positives such as being close enough to walk downtown to the public library, numerous restaurants, shopping, and medical facilities. For us, it's been a positive lifestyle change. 

Folks have asked us if we have any future home-ownership plans. As of now, that answer is No. For now, we're glad to no longer be responsible for a house and consider ourselves house-less as we're certainly not homeless.

The usual Friday Funnies was pre-empted to share this "news."
Enjoy your weekend, Everyone