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Tuesday, June 24, 2025

Trading Off & Nonna's

That's what we have been doing in the kitchen the past few weeks — only for dinner. Breakfast and lunch are excluded aside from Grenville's weekend breakfast prep.

This routine started soon after Grenville said complained that I was hogging the kitchen. He explained that he wanted his own kitchen time to try some new recipes from his America's Test Kitchen subscription.
This is our apartment kitchen, both sides
Before this changeover, we usually took turns cooking dinner depending on which one of us volunteered or insisted (guilty as charged). He was right in that I was spending the most time there.. The exception was on weekends when pancakes (sometimes crepes) or omelets were for breakfast, Grenville's favorites.. 

A small kitchen is nothing new to us. In our former NJ homes we had small galley-style kitchens (sorry, no photos,). Back then, there were outdoor grills there, so most warm weather, even in colder temps we cooked outdoors. Now, living on the 5th floor of a former mill, outdoor grilling is in the past. There's no open spots on the grounds because of the parking lot. Such is one of the drawbacks of apt life, but there are also pluses, like so many local restaurants in walking distance.

Later, after we purchasing and relocating to VA, we knew that a larger kitchen definitely was in the future. So, as part of the renovations, we replaced a very small kitchen there. It was really smaller than in our NJ homes and even our current NH kitchen.
The above photo shows the remodeled VA kitchen looking from the entry near the refrigerator.
This photo shows the opposite end of the remodeled VA kitchen looking to the stove. There was a lot of counter space to work. we often shared kitchen duties with one doing the prep and the other the cooking, a joint effort. We miss this space.

Now, living on the 5th floor of a former mill, there's no outdoor cooking. not even on the grounds since there's an outdoor parking area.

Dining out is nice when we travel and also as we have so many restaurants in downtown Nashua, NH (about 30 within walking distance). We both enjoy cooking at home, but tend to get in each other's way — two chefs and limited counter space. Yes, it can be done, but our styles of food prep and cooking are different.

Grenville does crepes
Beatrice prefers to have ingredients prepped, chopped, measured (spices, liquids) and put in bowls or containers for quick access when cooking starts. She also spreads kitchen utensils, cookware and cutting boards on counter space. (Some of you may know this by the French term, 
mise en place or everything in its place.)

Grenville is less ordered and doesn't like to clutter the counter space. The best way to describe his style is as you go; meaning he gets ingredients and pans out as needed.

At first, we considered alternating kitchen days; but, Grenville said that he would rather have an entire week, so we agreed on Monday - Sunday, seven days and started trading off about 6 weeks ago. Also, when one of us cooks, the other does cleanup (usually). If we've been away or dined out with friends during the week, we don't add or subtract a day(s) to one another's week, overall it sort of evens out.
Our cookbook collection which was downsized, slightly
One thing is definite, there's no shortage of cookbooks in our apartment as shown in the above bookcase collection. Yes, they are used depending on what's planned for dinner during the week. Our preferences tend toward fish and chicken, then pork with beef in last place. Vegetables and salads are also favorites here. I don't know if it's the same for any of you, sometimes we have to look through a few to find a recipe. And, when all else fails, we search online — doesn't everyone?
Giveaway cookbooks went to friends and the library
This photo above was taken, after we downsized the collection (a bit) and found new homes for them. The biggest book on the bottom was given to a friend, the others were donated to the Friends of the Nashua Public Library for a future sale. Cookbooks are always big sellers; there's never a shortage of donated ones.
Special cookbooks have their own shelf space
The left side of this bottom shelf is reserved for specialty and/or holiday cookbooks. The right side has vintage cookbooks that belonged to our mothers. Two that are taped and wrapped are from Patrick's mom, the red one above those was my mom's basic cookbook. The classic Betty Crocker Cookbook was bought 40 years+ ago after a move to my first apartment.

As this is a food post and we both cooking in and dining out, here's where we dined at a NH restaurant in February while on our road trip to the White Mountains. We had spent the afternoon traveling on the Snow Coach on Mt Washington as part of my birthday celebration. We learned about this area restaurant from a couple who had dined there the night before and were going back that night.

It was a happy coincidence as we had recently seen the Netflix film, Nonnas, based on the true story behind the founding of Enoteca Maria, a restaurant in Staten Island, NY, where actual grandmothers (nonnas) cook from traditional cook family recipes. The film is focused on owner Joe Scaravella, who risks financial ruin to honor his late mother and grandmother by opening an Italian restaurant, hiring local grandmothers as chefs. The restaurant is well known for hiring nonnas from around the world. 
The stars of the Netflix Film, Nonnas (Internet source)
The film features Vince Vaughn as Scaravella and Lorraine Bracco, Talia Shire, Brenda Vaccaro and Susan Sarandon as the nonnas. We found it to be a heartwarming, very enjoyable film which focused on food and family complete with strong performances from the lead actresses who played the nonnas. 
Nonna's Kitchen in Gorham, NH
While we haven't been to Enoteca Maria, we found something just as good and so much closer in the small town of Gorham, NH. This small restaurant, Nonna's Kitchen, is located in what was once a barber shop on historic Exchange Street. The interior has the original tin walls and ceiling and is very cozy, It was the perfect setting to enjoy a delicious Italian meal on a Saturday evening. While the restaurant looks empty in the photo below, we dined early, within a half hour, tables were filling up. 
Interior of Nonna's Kitchen
After dinner, we talked with the mother of the current owner, who is now the Nonna. She had opened the restaurant in April 2017 with her husband and it was named in honor of her mother (also Nonna). Although her husband and mother have since passed, the family has carried on the tradition. The restaurant is now run by herself and her son along with his wife.
Tomato-basil soup, homemade pasta and tiaramisu
The family-owned restaurant continues their passion and love for cooking. Recipes have been passed down from generations with some added new creations. All the pasta is made fresh daily and cooked to order. Everything was delicious, including the homemade dessert of tiramisu. If you're ever in NH, do yourself a favor and eat here. You won't be disappointed.

How about You ?
Are kitchen chores and cooking shared or is it a solo effort? And, do you cook from a book, online recipe, freestyle method or all (or some) of these?

BIG THANKS to fellow bloggers who read the previous post about how this blog started and commented too. Also, thanks for sharing your own blog journey, and in such great detail which were shared with Grenville/Patrick. We appreciate that sharing our lives and adventures is interesting and plan to continue.

17 comments:

David M. Gascoigne, said...

In our house we both cook. Miriam always does certain dishes and I do others. We also cook jointly and then we both start the preparation and then I start to cook while she finishes chopping etc. When I am cooking alone I get everything ready before I even turn on the stove. How she does it, even after twenty-three years together, I am not sure. When she is flying solo I stay out of the kitchen until she announces, “Dinner is ready!” In addition to dinner, we usually get our own breakfasts since we get up at different times, and I make lunch about ninety percent of the time. Generally, I pour the wine too! Gotta take care of the important stuff!

Boud said...

I live alone and I cook almost everything I eat. It's nice to experiment, and share the results with son and neighbors, but mostly I really enjoy the non pressure of cooking what I like when I feel like it. I try all kinds of ideas, from a couple of books after I winnnowed them down, not hard, everyone likes cookbooks! I have a couple of favorite YouTube chefs, too.

Anvilcloud said...

I tend to cook dishes every now and then, but Sue usually figures out the ongoing, daily fare. When I cook, it tends to be in the style of Beatrice.

Tom said...

...it's quite simple here, I make my own breakfast and lunch and my Sweetie makes dinner!

Linda G said...

We cook less than we used to. Eating out is much quicker and no clean up. Our kitchen is large enough to accommodate both of us. I do most of the cooking, when we eat in. Bob cleans up.

Jeanie said...

We both cook but except at the lake, usually prefer our own kitchens for it! At the lake we share. In summer, Rick does the grilling or pasta. I do the sides and desserts if we have them. When we're cooking together, we'll prep for the other. My friend Kate and her husband alternate weeks of cooking -- one on, one off. That works for them but I like to be more spontaneous!!

nick said...

Jenny does most of the cooking as she enjoys cooking. In return I do all the washing up and a lot of the food shopping. She gets recipes from all over - from the media, from recipe books, from friends, or just off the top of her head!

Sandra said...

I do all the cooking except breakfast. Mark cooked for himself before we were married but I am afraid I control the kitchen. He doesn't complain. The kitchen is my space. Mark does unload the dishwasher. I rarely use a recipe, just if I am trying something special, otherwise I cook from memory and instinct. When I don't feel like cooking we fend for ourselves. We do bring lunch in 2-3 times a week. Lunch is not my favorite to make.

Marcia said...

Dan is not a cook. I do it all. I like to prep things ahead too especially if it's a stir fry. I do grill but hot weather and rainy weather have hampered that this spring and now summer.

Linda's Relaxing Lair said...

I live alone (been divorced since 1998) and I love to cook; however, I must admit that my cooking is nothing fancy and I am not at all good with presentations, but the food I make tastes good and I think this is what is important, at least for myself.
I love all the photos in your post, the warm ambiance, the cookbooks. The kitchen scenes! I have never had a double sink in the kitchen because I have always lived in an apartment, but I do like seeing them.
Thank you so much for sharing, your posts are such a joy to read. :)

kathyinozarks said...

Good morning, I enjoy cooking posts! This was interesting to me that you both enjoy cooking. I was raised by a Mom that was brought up on a family farm-so I have those basics including when we could garden I preserved most of our fruits and veggies and we even raised our own meat and had eggs from the chickens.
I have always done the cooking-baking. when we were younger Larry cooked dishes from Japan-he spent years there when he was young and loved the food-so he made us a lot of stir frys from our garden and also the best egg rolls-we would have an egg roll party with several couples-that was fun.
I have always had a small kitchen-the smallest is here at the lake-I still miss my 10 burner wolf restaurant stove with two ovens very much sigh that is at the woods house

kathyinozarks said...

I also have always done everything-prep cooking clean up

MadSnapper n Beau said...

my answer can be short and sweet and in three words. I HATE COOKING! all cooking. I never use a recipe, never owned a cook book and fuss and carry on about cooking when I have to. Until bob stopped walking 3 months ago, he cooked his breakfast, and his dinner and I prepared lunch, which is our main meal. I do cook but stick to one pot or no more than 3 if I have to, you know like Spagetti, takes two pots. if I could I would love in a hotel with room service and or eat out. now I not only must fix 3 meals, I have to do his snacks, his water and drinks delivered, move what ever he drinks with a meal to the counter and them to his table at the sofa. he is helpless and I am completely in charge of all that is eaten. phooey.

MadSnapper n Beau said...

oops got so wound up I forgot to say I would love to eat at the Nonnas where you are and we loved the movie. we watched it a couple of weeks ago.. I need a nonna to come live with us

Kathy G said...

Hubby has been cooking on Sundays for many years. He makes enough to have leftovers for Monday.

photowannabe said...

I have to admit that I am a Fly By the Seat of My Pants type of cook. I have never really enjoyed it and I'm usually in survival mode. Dave isn't a cook at all but sure loves to eat. We seem to get along just fine...maybe its our age at 81 and 83.. we just can't do the "all out" dinners any more.
Love your blog and all of the interesting things you write about.
Have a wonderful day.
Sue

Ginny Hartzler said...

I didn't know anything about Nonna's! The movie will go on my watch list for sure! Your kitchen is narrow, but beautiful!! The floor matches your countertops too. So now I am kind of confused. You now alternate weeks...you cook everything one week and he cooks everything the next week?