That's what we have been doing in the kitchen the past few weeks — only for dinner. Breakfast and lunch are excluded aside from Grenville's weekend breakfast prep.
This routine started soon after Grenville said complained that I was hogging the kitchen. He explained that he wanted his own kitchen time to try some new recipes from his America's Test Kitchen subscription.
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This is our apartment kitchen, both sides |
A small kitchen is nothing new to us. In our former NJ homes we had small galley-style kitchens (sorry, no photos,). Back then, there were outdoor grills there, so most warm weather, even in colder temps we cooked outdoors. Now, living on the 5th floor of a former mill, outdoor grilling is in the past. There's no open spots on the grounds because of the parking lot. Such is one of the drawbacks of apt life, but there are also pluses, like so many local restaurants in walking distance.
Later, after we purchasing and relocating to VA, we knew that a larger kitchen definitely was in the future. So, as part of the renovations, we replaced a very small kitchen there. It was really smaller than in our NJ homes and even our current NH kitchen.
The above photo shows the remodeled VA kitchen looking from the entry near the refrigerator.
Now, living on the 5th floor of a former mill, there's no outdoor cooking. not even on the grounds since there's an outdoor parking area.
Dining out is nice when we travel and also as we have so many restaurants in downtown Nashua, NH (about 30 within walking distance). We both enjoy cooking at home, but tend to get in each other's way — two chefs and limited counter space. Yes, it can be done, but our styles of food prep and cooking are different.
Grenville does crepes |
Grenville is less ordered and doesn't like to clutter the counter space. The best way to describe his style is as you go; meaning he gets ingredients and pans out as needed.
At first, we considered alternating kitchen days; but, Grenville said that he would rather have an entire week, so we agreed on Monday - Sunday, seven days and started trading off about 6 weeks ago. Also, when one of us cooks, the other does cleanup (usually). If we've been away or dined out with friends during the week, we don't add or subtract a day(s) to one another's week, overall it sort of evens out.
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Our cookbook collection which was downsized, slightly |
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Giveaway cookbooks went to friends and the library |
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Special cookbooks have their own shelf space |
As this is a food post and we both cooking in and dining out, here's where we dined at a NH restaurant in February while on our road trip to the White Mountains. We had spent the afternoon traveling on the Snow Coach on Mt Washington as part of my birthday celebration. We learned about this area restaurant from a couple who had dined there the night before and were going back that night.
It was a happy coincidence as we had recently seen the Netflix film, Nonnas, based on the true story behind the founding of Enoteca Maria, a restaurant in Staten Island, NY, where actual grandmothers (nonnas) cook from traditional cook family recipes. The film is focused on owner Joe Scaravella, who risks financial ruin to honor his late mother and grandmother by opening an Italian restaurant, hiring local grandmothers as chefs. The restaurant is well known for hiring nonnas from around the world.
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The stars of the Netflix Film, Nonnas (Internet source) |
While we haven't been to Enoteca Maria, we found something just as good and so much closer in the small town of Gorham, NH. This small restaurant, Nonna's Kitchen, is located in what was once a barber shop on historic Exchange Street. The interior has the original tin walls and ceiling and is very cozy, It was the perfect setting to enjoy a delicious Italian meal on a Saturday evening. While the restaurant looks empty in the photo below, we dined early, within a half hour, tables were filling up.
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Interior of Nonna's Kitchen |
After dinner, we talked with the mother of the current owner, who is now the Nonna. She had opened the restaurant in April 2017 with her husband and it was named in honor of her mother (also Nonna). Although her husband and mother have since passed, the family has carried on the tradition. The restaurant is now run by herself and her son along with his wife.
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Tomato-basil soup, homemade pasta and tiaramisu |
The family-owned restaurant continues their passion and love for cooking. Recipes have been passed down from generations with some added new creations. All the pasta is made fresh daily and cooked to order. Everything was delicious, including the homemade dessert of tiramisu. If you're ever in NH, do yourself a favor and eat here. You won't be disappointed.
How about You ?
Are kitchen chores and cooking shared or is it a solo effort? And, do you cook from a book, online recipe, freestyle method or all (or some) of these?
BIG THANKS to fellow bloggers who read the previous post about how this blog started and commented too. Also, thanks for sharing your own blog journey, and in such great detail which were shared with Grenville/Patrick. We appreciate that sharing our lives and adventures is interesting and plan to continue.
8 comments:
In our house we both cook. Miriam always does certain dishes and I do others. We also cook jointly and then we both start the preparation and then I start to cook while she finishes chopping etc. When I am cooking alone I get everything ready before I even turn on the stove. How she does it, even after twenty-three years together, I am not sure. When she is flying solo I stay out of the kitchen until she announces, “Dinner is ready!” In addition to dinner, we usually get our own breakfasts since we get up at different times, and I make lunch about ninety percent of the time. Generally, I pour the wine too! Gotta take care of the important stuff!
I live alone and I cook almost everything I eat. It's nice to experiment, and share the results with son and neighbors, but mostly I really enjoy the non pressure of cooking what I like when I feel like it. I try all kinds of ideas, from a couple of books after I winnnowed them down, not hard, everyone likes cookbooks! I have a couple of favorite YouTube chefs, too.
I tend to cook dishes every now and then, but Sue usually figures out the ongoing, daily fare. When I cook, it tends to be in the style of Beatrice.
...it's quite simple here, I make my own breakfast and lunch and my Sweetie makes dinner!
We cook less than we used to. Eating out is much quicker and no clean up. Our kitchen is large enough to accommodate both of us. I do most of the cooking, when we eat in. Bob cleans up.
We both cook but except at the lake, usually prefer our own kitchens for it! At the lake we share. In summer, Rick does the grilling or pasta. I do the sides and desserts if we have them. When we're cooking together, we'll prep for the other. My friend Kate and her husband alternate weeks of cooking -- one on, one off. That works for them but I like to be more spontaneous!!
Jenny does most of the cooking as she enjoys cooking. In return I do all the washing up and a lot of the food shopping. She gets recipes from all over - from the media, from recipe books, from friends, or just off the top of her head!
I do all the cooking except breakfast. Mark cooked for himself before we were married but I am afraid I control the kitchen. He doesn't complain. The kitchen is my space. Mark does unload the dishwasher. I rarely use a recipe, just if I am trying something special, otherwise I cook from memory and instinct. When I don't feel like cooking we fend for ourselves. We do bring lunch in 2-3 times a week. Lunch is not my favorite to make.
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