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Monday, May 31, 2021

Memorial Day Washout

Example of Nashua street art near the mill apts
Traditionally, this Memorial Day holiday is the start of the summer season with community celebrations, parades and cookouts. And, at long last, a time when folks could start to gather after long year abstinence  of missed social get togethers.

Unfortunately, this holiday was when Mother Nature intervened not in a good way as the weekend weather here in Nashua, NH, and surrounding areas has been windy, rainy, chilly, and very unwelcoming for any outdoor plans, Friday to Monday.

We had no special holiday plans, other than gathering with neighbors riverside to watch a lighted boat parade on the Nashua River and watching fireworks from our apt windows. 

Fireworks were a no-go and the boat event has been postponed until this coming weekend. We'll miss it as we're (finally) returning to our native NJ for a first-time visit since December 2019. It's a way long overdue visit.

Rain, rain go away
And with not much else going on, other than listening to rain pelting the windows all weekend, I decided to post about this U.S. holiday which honors all who died while serving in military service. It’s often confused with another holiday, Veterans Day in November, which by comparison honors all American veterans—living or dead.

This day was originally known as Decoration Day, started in the years after the Civil War to honor only those lost fighting in that war. Back in May 1868, Gen. John Logan, leader of an organization for Northern Civil War veterans, officially proclaimed it as such in General Order No. 11 calling for a nationwide day of remembrance and proclaiming The 30th of May 1868, is designated for the purpose of strewing with flowers, or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village and hamlet church yard in the land.

The date was chosen as it wasn’t the anniversary of any particular battle. It became Memorial Day by federal law in the 1880’s and became a U.S. federal holiday in 1971.

On the first Decoration Day, General James Garfield made a speech at Arlington National Cemetery, where 5,000 participants decorated the graves of 20,000 Civil War soldiers. New York was the first state to officially recognize the holiday in 1873. Many northern states held similar commemorations and by 1890 many had made Decoration Day an official state holiday. Most Southern states didn't acknowledge the holiday and instead honored their military dead on separate days. That tradition ended after WW as the holiday evolved to commemorate American military from all states who died in all wars.

Today, it’s observed by most every state. Several southern states including Alabama, Florida, Georgia, Mississippi, South Carolina and Texas have an added separate day specifically for honoring Confederate war dead.

For decades, Memorial Day was observed on May 30. In 1968 Congress passed the Uniform Monday Holiday Act establishing it as the last Monday in May. The change, effective in 1971, declared it a federal holiday making it a three-day holiday weekend for many.

Moina Belle Michael
Many of us have purchased artificial poppies to commemorate Memorial Day. That association is thanks to 
American professor and humanitarian Moina Belle Michael. In November 1918, after reading the poem We Shall Not Sleep (the battlefront themed poem by Canadian army Dr John McCrae later retitled In Flanders Field) she decided to always wear a red poppy to remember those who died in that war.

After WW I, Michael was teaching a class of disabled servicemen, and saw a need to provide them with support. This lead to the her idea of selling silk poppies to raise funds. In 1921, this effort led to the poppy being adopted as a symbol of remembrance for war veterans by the American Legion Auxiliary, and later by Earl Haig's British Legion Appeal Fund (later The Royal British Legion).

VA garden poppy
Michael further pursued the idea of wearing red poppies on Memorial day to honor all those who died serving the nation in war time. She sold poppies to her friends and co-workers with the money going to benefit servicemen in need.

Shortly before Memorial Day 1922, the Veterans of Foreign Wars (VFW) became the first organization to nationally sell poppies. Two years later the Buddy®️Poppy program was selling artificial poppies made by disabled veterans. In 1948, the US Post Office honored Ms Michael for her role in founding the National Poppy movement by issuing a red postage stamp with her likeness.
Currently, the Memorial Day tradition has expanded to include the annual “National Moment of Remembrance” which asks Americans to pause for a minute at 3 p.m. (when most are enjoying time off) to remember those who died in military service. The Moment was enacted into law by Congress in December 2000.

This year, Memorial Day observances in many NH towns have been scaled back or cancelled. Here in Nashua, the annual parade was called off for the second consecutive year as officials cited the difficulty in trying to keep participants and spectators safe. We attended the last Memorial Day Parade in 2018. Events such as wreath-laying services were scheduled, but the foul weather most likely will deter attendees. 

Nashua honors military veteran or active duty service members through a Military Banner Tribute Program run by the Nashua Division of Public Works that launched last summer. It features the name, photo and military history of 38 active duty members/veterans on banners hung along the 1.8 mile newly renamed Veterans Memorial Parkway. Banners purchased by family members or sponsors will be up from Memorial Day through Veterans Day and given to participants as a keepsake afterwards. (Foul weather prohibited a photo excursion.)

There’s a another memorial display in Hudson, NH, a town about 2 miles from Nashua. Started in 2019, the Field of Honor® is a fundraiser for the local American Legion Post. Each flag honors current active duty members, veterans, or first responders within a 50-mile radius of the town. The flags stand in solemn formation in Library Park 2 weeks before Memorial Day until flag day in mid-June. They are lit at night and will be taken down and stored after the display period.
Nashua River & downtown view on a wet weekend
Rain has continued on and off today. This Sunday scene from our LR window gives some idea of the less than ideal holiday forecast. It's as miserable outside as it looks from indoors.
Our holiday weekend meal
Not to be deterred from enjoying a weekend holiday (or any time) favorite food of hot dogs, Grenville prepared them wrapped in crescent rolls not hot dog buns. My contribution was roasted veggies and roasted cauliflower with barbecue sauce. (We had healthy sides.)

How was your weekend (holiday or not)? We hope, you had better (much) weather than here.

24 comments:

John "By Stargoose And Hanglands" said...

Spring holiday weekend here too - and for once it's coincided with some glorious sunny weather. That doesn't happen very often!

Anvilcloud said...

Same weather here, at least the cold and windy part. But we are bone dry. Sadly.

Barbara Rogers said...

Not much planned, though I really don't know about community events bigger than the pot luck lunch (in a few hours) at the Club House of my apartment complex. I'd best get cooking!

Jon said...

Thanks for the well-researched (and much appreciated) information about Memorial Day. I remember people wearing those red poppies when I was a very small child.

This holiday weekend has been unseasonably chilly here in TN. The daytime high temp. on Friday was 50 degrees. Last night it was 39 and I put an extra blanket on the bed.
Today (Memorial Day)the sun has finally appeared....summer just might arrive...

David said...

Beatrice, Sorry that everything was cancelled in Nashua. We are wide open here with plenty of celebrations but we don't like crowds, Covid-19 or not. I always publish a post on my blog site commemorating my father's ultimate sacrifice and we do of course ensure that our flag is up and flying high. Take Care, Big Daddy Dave

Emma Springfield said...

I remember going to the cemetery from the time I was very small. My father felt strongly about remembrance. We still honor the tradition today.

L. D. said...

Good photos of flags and great looking food.

Bijoux said...

The weather finally improved yesterday afternoon, so sunny skies are headed your way! We traditionally always attended aMemorial Day parade and remembrance at the town cemetery, but that was canceled again this year. Thank you for some interesting history lessons about the day.

My name is Erika. said...

Interesting reading about this holiday. I didn't realize it first started to remember Civil War dead and also why they picked this day. I was just watching the news and they did the Field of Honor in Rochester and then I scrolled to you photo before they even finished the story. I had to laugh about the hot dogs. We grilled some at lunch but had to eat them inside due to this gloomy weather. Let's hope July 4 is a better holiday weather-wise this year. Have a nice trip to NJ.

Rita said...

Beautiful day here--sun, a few clouds, not too windy, and 76 degrees. Was a nice weekend here for people. Sorry it was miserable your way. I hope you get to see the lighted boats next weekend. :)

William Kendall said...

Hopefully next year the day can be properly marked.

Karen Lakis said...

The Memorial Day weekend was cold and rainy, here, too. We still had the usual out-of-state cars, though. I hope you have a great time in New Jersey - it's so nice to finally be able to visit family and friends!

Margaret D said...

Lovely to read about your Memorial Day, interesting and you put a lot of work into telling us.
Pity regarding the weather, the rain but that's the way it goes.
Take care.

Sallie (FullTime-Life) said...

You got wind and rain and we get a heat wave here in Oregon-- incredible heat for the Pacific Northwest this early in the season. It is to be hotter here today than it is at our home in Florida where hot is expected this time of year. Craziness. I'm sorry your celebrations all got cancelled. And tell "Grenville" that even though I am not a hot-dog lover at all, those crescent roll wrapped ones could change my mind. Or maybe it's the delicious healthy sides that help! We are getting ready to go camping in a couple of days (hopefully after the crowds go home) and so we hadn't planned anything special for today. Now I'm sorry. )))

Cynthia said...

We had a beautiful day on Memorial Day but stayed home to avoid the traffic and crowds. Sorry yours was cold and rainy.

Linda G. said...

We didn’t attend any Memorial Day events. It was the same here in western PA...rainy, chilly and windy. The events were still held, but we didn’t go. We went to family activities, unrelated to the holiday. On Saturday we spent the day celebrating my niece’s 30th birthday. I participated in a painting party. We went to Emily’s birthday dinner. There were 14 of us at the dinner—all my brother’s family and Bob and me. On Sunday we celebrated the birthdays of two great nieces—sisters—at a pavilion in a park. We had a lovely time with family. I won’t be blogging about the weekend. I do have pictures on Flickr. If interested in checking out the pictures, let me know. I will send you a link. Have a great time in NJ!

Kenneth Cole Schneider said...

I have wonderful memories of decorating my bicycle to participate in the Decoration Day parade in the 1940's in New Jersey. Just learned that it was not even a federal holiday until years laer!

Bindu said...

We had a couple of warmer days. Then it cooled off. Now, started getting warmer again!

Edna B said...

Our weekend weather was yucky too. But the sun is shining now and the temps are warming up. I've been reading your past posts and came across those yummy looking ice cream cones. Oh my, they are making me hungry for ice cream!
Your trip looks like a fun time. Enjoy your day and upcoming journey to see family. Hugs, Edna B.

DeniseinVA said...

A beautiful mural to start your post off. Sounds like you had a real nice day even with the rain. You wrote a very interesting post about the history, thank you. Poppies were worn by my family way back when I was a child and I have a small posy in my collection that I display every Memorial Day. We used to get them from the Salvation Army who always played musical instruments in town, mostly trumpets. Your holiday meal looked wonderful! Enjoy your gathering with family this coming weekend. It will be a wonderful get together after this long.

Jeanie said...

We called it Decoration Day for a long time and always participate. I'm sorry you had such a rainy time, Dorothy. But what an intersting post.

baili said...

it was cool to learn how memorial day was decoration day before and for long time .good that every state has chosen special day to py tribute who served and sacrificed for the homeland !

river through your apt window is breathtakingly beautiful :)

how amazing you gathered with others around you to see parade and firework ,but this is sad that weather did not behave ,we are having nice weather since two previous days after windstorm thankfully .hoping for the grace of Lord for more days ahead
food prepared by Patrick is awesome ,i love cauliflower so i adore your addition more :)
blessings!

Vee said...

Same weather; my crew took advantage of a break in the weather to play a game of wiffle ball on the side lawn. When the rain started up, we broke for microwave s'mores. And that was more ore less it.

Rob K said...

It was a washout here in Brooklyn, too, but I did enjoy this post.