Doing something romantic for Valentine's Day doesn't need to be expensive and doesn't require an expensive night out, heart shaped balloons or candy or flowers.
Romance isn't for a single day and doesn't come with a cost. It can take simple gestures on a daily basis like holding hands, opening doors, coffee in bed (my daily treat) or helping one another in small ways. Showing love is not about dollar value purchase, as romance really is priceless (sorry for the bad pun).
Yet, this year spending for this one-day is expected to be billions of dollars in the U.S. alone. That estimate comes from The National Retail Federation which projected that Americans will spend over $29.1 billion on this single day. This figure will top the 2025 record of $27.5 billion. Individual gift spending is expected to be about $200 beating a 2020 previous high of $196.
The above photos weren't taken at a florist shop, bakery or gift store, but in Shaw's a local supermarket in Nashua, NH, yesterday afternoon. The previous day, we shopped in another local supermarket, Hannaford, and saw a similar scene in the floral department.
As for ourselves, we never, ever go out on Valentine's Day/ We're dining at home on filet mignon, baked potato, asparagus, preceded by shrimp cocktail. Candy treats will be leftovers from the holidays. Flowers will be on the dining room table next week, not for a holiday, but because we enjoy them. Cards will be plentiful, as always, will place of pride on the living room bookcases replacing recent birthday cards.
This week at the Hudson Senior Center (NH) Maxine was greeting everyone in her most colorful attire. If you notice, she's available and looking for a date as well.
Now a look-back at a sweet treat that so many of us can probably remember.
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| Display of Sweethearts Cutie Pie candies in a local supermarket priced at 3 for $2 |
Sweethearts The Original Cutie Pie Conversation Hearts are small, heart-shaped candies produced by Spangler Candy. The cherry-strawberry heart-shaped candies feature messages like Cutie Pie, Be Mine, Marry Me and Kiss Me popular for Valentine’s Day.
But, did you know that this one started here in New England ?
Sweetheart candies began in 1847 when Boston, MA pharmacist Oliver Chase invented a machine for medicinal lozenges which in turn lead to Necco (New England Confectionery Company) wafers, the first mass-produced American candy. In 1866, his brother, Daniel, designed a machine to print sayings on them using red vegetable dye. Candies were made in various shapes and were also larger with more words. The iconic heart shapes with brief messages started in 1901 and became a Valentine's Day tradition with short sweet wording due to limited space on the candy. Over the years, messages have been updated to include modern slang like Fax Me, Call Me, Text Me and Me & You.
Necco went out of business in 2018 and family-owned Spangler Candy Company acquired the brand. The company didn't have enough time to produce them for Valentine's Day in 2019, but returned the classic candy to stores by 2020. Candies are made at the company's main facility in Bryan, OH and sold in 0.9 oz boxes often in multi-packs. Other popular Spangler brands include: Dum-Dums, Bit-O-Honey, Necco Wafers, Spangler Candy Canes, Spangler Circus Peanuts and Canada Mints.
And, now you know, the rest of the story.
We wish everyone a sweet and Happy ❤️ celebration and hope that yours is as special as ours will be, but not-as-costly as some others.



16 comments:
Have a love-ly Valentine's day!
Happy Valentine's Day and enjoy your lovely dinner tonight. It sounds good.
Your thoughts about romance are absolutely true. True love is forever - - not just for one day of a year. I only like Valentine's Day for the chocolate candy. And I sure remember those conversation hearts when I was a kid, and penny valentines.
Anyway, have an enjoyable weekend. Jon
...it's best that stay clear of all of this. Dorothy, be happy and well.
Happy Valentine's day and I enjoyed your post. It is crazy to us to spend too much money on going out-and usually the food is nothing really special for the higher prices. I make us our own dinner. I asked Larry what he would like today and he says chili-haha so chili it is
I remember this candy hearts well. We don't do anything for this day. When we were younger we did, but not anymore.
Love Maxine, the cartoon, not this one. ha ha.. we don't do holidays, and never have, not cards or flowers or candy, we buy what we want/need when we need it and both of us are hard to shop for.
We are both spend thrifts, cheap to the bone and by not buying stuff we don't need, we can buy what we need when we need it or want it..
Holidays have been created by people trying to make a lot of money on things that people don't need or want. My son and his wife filed for bankruptcy, got out from under and then did it again. they celebrated every holiday with gifts and cards and trips and once again are on the brink and still going out for dinner tonight for his birthday and their anniversary.. yep, I am a Valentine humbug
Like you, we don't make a big fuss over Valentine's Day. As you say, showing love is what it's all about. We buy a box of Lindt chocolates and that's it. The Cutie Pie Hearts look like the equivalent of our Love Hearts, which also have messages on them.
Hubby and I had an event scheduled last night, which we decided passed for a Valentine's celebration.
I’ve loved the day since childhood. My father always gave me a beautiful heart shaped box of chocolates. I no longer indulge, but my husband always buys me a plant that lasts and a bouquet of flowers. We will go out next weekend for a lovely dinner without the crowds.
Happy Valentine’s Day 🥳❤️!
Necco Wafers! As s kid I remember driving by the factory. The Necco wafers made today are awful, not made the original recipe, IMHO.
May
Maxine is resplendent in all her glory today! Your day sounds wonderful. I love the collage you made from the Valentines in the stores! It is so pretty and happy!
I love all of the information and thought you put into your posts.
I used to always enjoy the heart sayings on the candy.
I totally agree with you on the sentiment being the most important thing.
We celebrated yesterday by going grocery shopping together ... haha ... we hadn't been for 3 weeks and oh my ... our cupboard was bare ! Hot dogs and baked beans was the special fare in front of the tv watching the Olympics. We are such wild and crazy people. And ..it was just perfect. We were so tired from shopping that it was all we could manage.
Love Maxine in her finery.
Sue
Dum-dums, Necco wafers, and circus peanuts were treats when I was a child. Bot-O-Honey was more favorable as I aged. BE MINE
Nice to see Maxine greeting everyone in her colourful attire.
Happy Valentines Day and Happy Weekend Wishes too.
All the best Jan
As you know, we acknowledge on another day.
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